May, 2052
“You’re fortunate to be living in this era,” says Nonna,
brown eyes twinkling above the dimples in her wrinkled cheeks.
Rachel sips at the red raspberry leaf tea, the cup clinking
against the saucer as she sets it down to respond. Her grandmother is already talking
again. “When I gave birth to your
mother,” she goes on, “I was not allowed to eat or drink.”
Rachel’s eyebrows shoot up.
“The whole time?”
“That’s right. Back
in those days, all babies were born in hospitals – even healthy babies. Laboring mothers weren’t allowed a single sip
of water. I was so thirsty my tongue was
swollen and sticking to the roof of my mouth.
After many hours, I was given ice chips, but even that was taken away when
I was caught swallowing some of the ice to stave off the gnawing hunger.”
“That’s horrible,” Todd interjects, dropping down to perch
on the Victorian loveseat beside his wife.
“Having a baby is like . . . running a marathon. What athlete would attempt such a feat dehydrated
on an empty stomach?”
Nonna chuckles at his analogy. “You’re right, of course. But you see, laboring women were not treated
like athletes. We were treated like sick
patients, like there was something wrong with us. According to the doctors, our ‘condition’ was
best treated with narcotics, opioids, and surgical intervention. By 2005, the c-section rate went through the
roof, with nearly one out of three mothers sliced open for delivery. From the doctors’ point of view, laboring women
were all potential targets for expensive surgery. That’s why they starved us.”
Rachel scowls, rubbing puffy hands over the swollen
full-moon belly. “But labor can go on
for hours -- or even days,” she notes.
“Especially when you’re lying down with feet in stirrups, pushing
uphill,” the old woman acknowledges.
“That’s absurd,” Todd murmurs. “Why not let gravity work?”
Rachel shakes her head.
“That position was designed to benefit doctors, not women”
“You’re right,” Nonna answers. “It placed us at a great psychological
disadvantage, too. It allowed medical
staff to treat us as objects, paying attention only to the ‘business end,’ as
if we had no face, no heart, and no mind.”
“I’m so glad no caregiver would think of using stirrups
today,” Rachel sighs, rubbing her belly again.
“It’s a wonder women were able to push at all.”
“The doctors had ways of speeding up labor artificially,” Nonna
answers. “But the drugs sometimes caused
uterine rupture, killing the baby or causing permanent brain damage.
One drug, Cytotec, was not even FDA-approved for obstetrical
use. Eventually they had to stop using
it.”
Rachel smiles, her face transformed. “So they went back to the natural ways?” she
guesses.
“Not at first,” her grandmother answers. “At first they skipped the contraction drugs
and resorted to the knife much sooner.”
Rachel looks down, distracted for a moment by the
contracting of her own womb. “I’ll go
heat the rice bag,” Todd offers, trotting to Nonna’s kitchen with the hand-made
cloth pouch. Nonna watches him round the
corner, thinking how glad she is for Rachel.
At last Rachel’s attention comes back to her grandmother’s
wizened face. “Why did the women allow
it?” she asks.
Nonna sighs, holding out empty hands. “We just didn’t know better. Our own mothers were knocked out for
birth. We thought we were making
progress just by being awake. Some women
realized things should be different, but it was a constant fight. I chose a hospital that was supposed to be
supportive of natural birth. They still
pulled the ice chip stunt. Before I registered,
they said they allowed ‘rooming in’ so I would not be separated from my baby
girl. But right after birth, they
whisked her away! I begged for her, but
they kept her ‘under observation’ for four hours. They also gave her sugar water against my
wishes, and pushed to inject her with vaccines just hours after birth.”
“That’s horrid,” Rachel clucks. “Why didn’t women just stay away from
hospitals? Have their babies at home?”
“Well, in Georgia
it was illegal.”
Rachel laughs. “How
can birthing a child break a law?”
“Oh, it was not homebirth that was prohibited, so long as we
did it alone! It was homebirth midwives
they outlawed.”
“So women could birth at home – but only without help?”
Nonna nods. “Things
were different back in 2007 when your mother was born,” she says. “For one thing, 8 out of 10 lawmakers were
men. There had never even been a woman
President. Women only earned 70 cents on
the dollar. We didn’t have the kind of
power you gals have!” She beams at her
granddaughter, so young and confident.
“My next child – your Uncle Tim – was born at home with an ‘illegal’
midwife.”
“Wow,” Rachel whispers, throwing a glance at Todd as he
tucks the warm rice bag into the small of her back, “There was a black market
for midwifery?”
“Certainly. There
were always women who refused to be mistreated, and there were always midwives
willing to skirt the law to give excellent care. The legal risks were high for those
midwives. Once in a while, a baby dies
during birth. It happens sometimes, no
matter where women give birth. In a
hospital, these deaths were considered a statistical eventuality. In the early 2000s, no one was charged for
hospital deaths, even when the damage was clearly caused by uterine-rupturing
drugs or overuse of pain-killers. It was
extremely rare for a baby to die in a homebirth setting -- but when it did
happen the midwives were charged with manslaughter. In other cases, overdue women were jailed for
refusing to have a c-section. It was
actually against the law to disobey a doctor’s orders! Eventually it was the women who turned the
tide.”
“Through lawsuits?” Todd guesses.
“That was part of it.”
Nonna nods thoughtfully. “The
studies showed clearly that it was doctors’ drugs and fasting that caused most
of the ‘danger signals’ (like blood pressure drops and changes in babies’ heart
rates) that led to the c-sections. But
that went unreported for twenty years! It
was not until women stood up for themselves that things changed. Women reporters talked about the studies on
the six-o’clock news. Women journalists
wrote about the prohibition of home midwifery and the barriers to natural
childbirth. Women doctors watched the
signs instead of the clock. Business
women opened natural birthing centers. Women
were elected to office and they legalized homebirth midwifery in Georgia , and
later nationwide. Most of all, laboring
women refused to let their needs be sacrificed to hospital protocols and
doctors’ schedules. We had to insist on
change!”
Nonna sets down her teacup.
“We insisted on dignity. We did
not let doctors push us into inductions or surgeries just to accommodate their
schedules. Women who still used
hospitals refused the wheelchair and the gown that were presented at check-in. Women
refused to be starved, or to have their veins punctured with unnecessary
IVs. Mothers refused to let doctors
break their waters or insert electronic monitors in the baby’s scalp. When we pushed our babies into the world with
our own fierce power, then we refused to let them out of our sight.”
Nonna smiles. “Eventually
even the medical community came to recognize that birth is an act of motherhood,
not an act of medical science. Today a
laboring woman is not regarded as a body on a table, as if she and the baby
needed some doctor to ‘deliver’ them from each other. Today women are honored as life-bringers.”

2 comments:
I'm so glad I had my last two babies at home, legally, with midwives. My last was in water. This cut the pain down by 50%. Cord was wrapped around his head, but a c section was not necessary. My midwife reached in and fixed it.
That's awesome! My last 3 were born at home, and twice we had complications that could have been very serious -- shoulder dystocia. In both cases, my midwife was able to resolve the situation quickly and safely without the least harm to me or the baby.
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